Can any body tell me why??
Does a student have an obligation to teach friends?
I say....NO WE DON'T!!
Does a student have to be an encyclopedia and know everything?
I say....NO WE DON'T!!
Does a student have to report to friends on how the assignment or mock exam went?
I say...NO WE DON'T!
Does a student have to spare out time to teach things when they themselves don't know what they are really doing?
I say...NO WE DON'T!!
Does a student have the obligation to borrow notes to others?
I say...NO WE DON'T!!
Well guys don;t think i am finish yet..but i have o go to class already...
However, this are my answers to my own questions..
and i find it hard to understand why...
All my answers are NO..but in reality... the answer tells me that everything i do is a wrong move..
1. If you don't teach others....u will be called selfish..
2. If you say you don't know something...they will say.."yeah right..don't pretend"
3.If you say 'i didn't do well'...You will be told you are such a good actor..
4. If you say that you don't really know what you are doing...you will be told you are a lying..
5.If you don;t borrow your notes...you will be called a terrible friend..
It is not that we don't want to help people...but there is a fear...
What if we gave wring information on something...
who is it to be blame??
the person who taught you??
that will be me right...
When we study we have a schedule and a place to go to...
do you think everyone can study in groups??
or study in the park or something??
If you think so...i think you are self centered..
cause you don't think about others..
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oh well, there's always this person who score really high mark in tests and doesn't want to share her stuff with others. She didn't want to really teach you when you ask her something and most people dislike her attitude. But tat doesnt affect our relation with her cause out of work, we are still friends.
Most ppl in my course are extremely helpful and if you ask something, most of the time you get positive feedback. but those who take do not only take, they give too.. those who give, take too. so it's more like helping each other kind of thing in university.
I am sooo sorry if you feel that way and I understand quite well how you feel cause mostly only asian will say that to you. (cause most of the time ang mos dont really study..lol)
I hope you will be well soon and if you are not good, talk to me anytime.. I want to share your emotion.
Have a really really nice day and enjoy your university life..
hope to hear from you soon.
miss u.
X
har.. u u i totally understand this kind of feeling but im not having this problem at the moment (which im really thankful).
sometimes i really really sibeh beh tahan those kind of students who are not serious in studying at all. if in high school i chap siao you so much. but in uni your parents spent so much money then you just go to classes whenever you want or if you don feel like it just don go.
i got a friend. i a bit beh tahan her la. she always late to class one cuz she sleep late. or she dun go to classes just cuz she has flu. if she really go to class, when teacher is explaining she's doing something else. just RIGHT after the teacher finish explaining she ask me what did the teacher say. omg beh tahan this kind of attitude ah! aidi. then when everyone finish their assignments she baru ask me got what assignment to do. then when she's strugglin to meet the deadline she complain everything and say the teacher so bad la, this not fair la, that very soi la.. apa apa.
as in... WHAT THE F! it's totally your fault for ending up like that. if you would just at least ONCE listen in class! shit. then ask me this ask me that when im doing my own shit. then i actually got tips for the exam i dun wan give her liao. since she's not a serious student. i only give it to those who are hardworking and deserve it. sheesh...
cheer up u u. just do your best in everything...
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